The nervous child

• The nervous child

There are many mothers who face a problem and difficulty in dealing with their nervous children, and the nervousness of children appears in several forms, including screaming and biting the nails, tightening hair or even beating other children, or biting everything that falls under their hands, as nervousness in children is caused by a number of reasons Psychological and medical and educational reasons in which the child lives, and this case must be deterred and treated in children before the development and growth with him.

Causes child nervousness

Psychological causes

1- Child's loss of affection and love on the part of parents.

2- Child persecution from peers.

3- Neglect of caring for the child.

Educational reasons

Distinguishing parents in dealing with children,

denying the child the choice in simple matters.

Excessively pampering a child.

The neurosis of one or both parents.

Notifying the child that it is a family concern.

Repress the child's feelings by preventing him from expressing his opinion or preventing him from crying.

Medical causes 

The medical reasons are as follows:

Inflammation of the sinuses, almonds or urine.

Vitamin D deficiency in the first months of pregnancy.

Epilepsy.

Difficulty speaking,

The child was mocked by others.

Chronic constipation.

Methods of dealing with the nervous child

If the child’s nerve condition is caused by a disease,

Their solution is to bring the child to a therapist.

In the event that the child's nervous condition is caused by psychological and educational reasons, then the mother and father must do the following: abandon her nervousness in dealing with the child or even in front of the child.

Providing the child's psychological needs, which are love, affection, safety, and stability. Provide the child's necessary requirements, which meet his needs such as toys

Avoid the use of cruelty and hurtful words in dealing with the child, because this method promotes an aggressive feeling in the child. Caring for moderation in providing love and significance to the child. The excessive connotation of the child develops a sense of selfishness and self-love. Equality in dealing with children must be equal, so there is no need to differentiate between big and small, male or female.

Attention to motivate the child to do positive actions, by giving gifts to him and praising him when he performs positive behavior. Give the child a space to choose some things such as games.

Monitor what the child is seeing, and make sure to prevent the child from watching violent scenes and scenes.

Practice discussion with the child about anything, instead of shouting and suppressing feelings.

Providing games that develop the child's intelligence and occupy his mental and nervous efforts in proper ways.

The child should sleep adequately and comfortably.